Love and Money, Sex and DeathAfter a successful career, a twenty year marriage, and raising two kids, McKenzie Wark experiences an extreme midlife change: coming out as a trans woman. Changing both social role and bodily form recasts her whole relation to the world and reveals it to her as something strange and different. Her past life becomes a stranger to her, a past she can only reclaim by writing to important figures in her life, addressing the big themes that haunt us all: