Baby-proofing Your Marriage: How to laugh more, argue less and communicate better as your family growsThe no holds barred truth about what having a baby can do to your marriage and what you can do about it. In the months after a first child is born, all hell breaks loose. A crying newborn can reduce a grown man to tears, turn a sane woman into a bottle wielding shrew, and otherwise test the strongest of marriages. It sometimes seems that a baby's mission is to destroy everything it comes in contact with: your furniture, your clothes, your carand your