Where to Find Bridesmaid Dresses for Less The New York Times Did I order too small? : r WeddingDressTips The dress was too big in the bust and too small in the back. I made the bust cups smaller and added a push up bra in it. I added little pieces This bride's dress was too tight at the bust and there was not enough seam allowance to let out, so we added tulle side panels that we are hiding under lace appliqu.