How to Find the Right WordsLife constantly requires us to give other people some hugely awkward messages: that we don't love them anymore; that we do love them (though we're not meant to); that they smell a bit; that they're fired; that we're furious with them (though we adore them) or that their music is too loud Often, out of embarrassment, we just stay quiet. Occasionally we explode. And typically, we stumble about, looking for the right wordsdreading that we didn't find